Sorry if this post isn’t relevant to you. It’s a little personal and if it’s not 100% up your alley feel free to skip to the next blog post. But, if you’re like me, and tend to struggle with Type A++ (which I like to call it) and keeping it altogether, then read on.

I admit, it’s easier for people with a personality like mine to struggle with the reality of reaching a “breaking point”. For I am the type who works unnecessary hours with red eyes, dark circles, and common coffee breaks. The type who holds everything that bothers me inside trying to make sense of it. Until the thought finally occurs that I can't fix everything.

Sometimes things happen that are out of my control and that’s ok. Sometimes it’s ok to roll with it, maybe take a chance or two or even try a NEW restaurant to eat at. Change can be good.

Sometimes it’s ok to take a second to breathe in the cold air and not have to make a decision about something. It's ok to have a lens flare on some of your images...

For myself, everything has to have a purpose. It has to have a name, an explanation, and a time frame. But, holding onto these aspects of my personality are bringing me to the dreadful “breaking point” in the first place. A part of growing up is also letting go. Letting go of the things that are holding you back from your true potential. Distancing yourself from negative naysayers.

Change can be good. Impulsive change can be good. I just need to trust God that he has everything figured out...and remember that I am just a simple pawn in the complex game of chess.

Things will work out and they will be for the greater. Things don't have to be 100% perfect. Actually I don't have to be 100% perfect. I can try but, if mistakes happen it's OK.

So if you’re scared to take the plunge on something or just letting life happen, remember to take a chance.

You don’t have to control everything.
And that my friend, is life.

Stay Positive Loves,